stop being judgmental.

it was too annoying to have a friend who always being judgmental. 

mentioning this and that, pointing out others flaws. 

you can't do this, you can't do that...because you're still new at it/you don't have enough knowledge/you don't have experience...bla bla. treating you like you are not capable of doing anything. 

i remembered that i read in one of the motivational book that i bought recently when i was back in malaysia, it said, stop being friend with someone that always put you down.

but no. not that i'm going to stop being a friend to someone but yeah i should just avoid talking about dreams or stuffs with him/her. 

because it always like, when i was talking about big dream, mission or things to be done, what i want to achieve in the near future, he/she 's always like...  

boleh ke awak buat? 

awak mampu ke? 

tak mungkin. kite rasa awak x boleh. 

hurm, itu ke cita2 sekarang? xlama lagi mesti awak ubah fikiran. 

-____-"

ohhh please, sgt annoying.

because i always trust that THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE in EVERYTHING.

and i don't need someone to tell me what i can't do, what i can't achieve.

kalau tak boleh nak bagi semangat dekat orang lain, sila diam, sebab mematikan semangat dan harapan orang lain adalah satu perkara yang sangat kejam. seriously.

i'm sorry. this entry is just too emotional. but i have to write this, as a reminder, to all of us, of course for me too. 

hurm, i teringat, situasi ni, mmg sebijikkk macam yg dr muhaya cakap, haritu waktu balik malaysia, ada la tengok rancangan dr muhaya n beliau ada cakap yang zaman sekarang ni banyak sungguh orang yang ada sifat yang bagi aura negatif dekat orang lain, which is suka mematikan semangat orang lain, and susah nak puji or bagi semangat kat orang.

indeed. sama2 lah kita check diri kita, adakah kita termasuk dalam golongan yang kalau bercakap tu suka sangat nak matikan harapan orang lain...